If you find yourself feeling frazzled and overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Burnout – a stress-induced state of extreme mental, physical and emotional exhaustion – is incredibly common, with Mental Health UK finding that 91 per cent of UK adults have experienced high or extreme levels of stress in the past year.
“When the demands on us exceed our resources, eventually this catches up as no-one can give from an empty cup,” Dr Hannah Kearney, a psychiatrist and UK medical director at Flow Neuroscience, explains.
“Typically, at times of the year when people are busier with a host of extra and often competing demands on their time, there is less down-time, more mental load to carry and often high expectations that can feel like unrealistic pressure.”
Kearney explains that burnout is not a formal medical diagnosis, but it’s something that can be identified by a state of feeling highly stressed and overwhelmed to the point of complete depletion of energy. “People describe ‘hitting the wall’ and feeling exhausted, emotionally detached, demotivated and unable to function.” she says.
Dr Kearney also notes that neurodivergent people can be disproportionately impacted.
“They tend to experience prolonged stress caused by constantly needing to compensate and mask for executive function challenges,” she adds. “This puts them at increased risk of frequent cycles of burnout and overwhelm.”
However, it’s not all doom and gloom, and there are ways to identify the symptoms of burnout and its triggers – from feeling guilty about not wanting to socialise to feeling tired all the time. We spoke with a range of experts specialising in mental health, fitness, nutrition and hormonal health, and asked each one for their top tips on how to spot, manage and treat burnout.
Burnout symptoms: How to spot it
“People can experience burnout differently,” says wellness expert Penny Weston. “The top signs of burnout to look out for are feeling tired or more tired than usual, struggling to get to sleep despite feeling tired and finding you are irritable. You might also experience mood swings, a lack of enthusiasm in work, a decrease in productivity and feeling detached.”
While burnout can be experienced at any time of the year, it is more prevalent in the colder months. We naturally feel more introverted during winter due to hormonal shifts caused by reduced sunlight and altered sleep patterns. For our ancestors, winter was a time to hunker down and rest, but our modern lifestyles remain busy and in some cases ramp up during this period. This can lead to extreme tiredness and overwhelm, and we can often experience feelings of guilt about letting others down.
A recent study from Expedia showed that 50 per cent of us feel the need to apologise for taking annual leave. Ruminating on feelings of not being good enough and not working hard enough despite feeling exhausted is a common symptom of burnout.
“Recognising what is going on and being honest with yourself and others close to you are the crucial first steps to helping yourself,” advises Kearney. “Think about what the most important things in your life are, and try to simplify what is on your plate. This likely involves letting go of expectations, and that’s OK – you are allowed to disappoint people if you need to prioritise your wellbeing.”
You may also notice that you’re feeling physically unwell when you’re burnt out. When the body is tired and depleted, this can affect immunity, energy levels and the health of your skin and gut. Stomach aches, breakouts and more coughs and colds can all be indications that you’re run down and need to rest. The physical symptoms of burnout can also be exacerbated by your lifestyle, so it’s worth taking stock of your diet, hydration levels and sleep habits to avoid feeling worse.
How to avoid burnout
Eat nutritious food often
Nutrition is directly linked to energy levels, stress resilience and the body’s ability to recover. Of course, when we’re stressed we might automatically reach for comfort food, or lose our appetite altogether, but nutrient-rich foods are one of the best defences against burnout.
“Undereating, eating irregularly (especially late at night or with huge gaps in between meals), or consuming high sugar foods or drinks can lead to poor sleep quality and blood sugar imbalances, which can increase cortisol,” explains Cara Shaw, nutritionist at Blueiron. “This can exacerbate feelings of fatigue, anxiety and overwhelm, which are key contributors to burnout. Nutrient poor food choices can also leave you with deficiencies in key vitamins and minerals like iron – needed to support energy levels and immune health.” she says.
If you’re tempted to diet or fast in the new year, it’s also worth considering how to do this in a healthy way. “Fasting has the potential to increase the likelihood of burnout symptoms, especially in already stressed individuals.” says Shaw. “Extended fasting periods can elevate cortisol levels and deplete energy reserves, making it harder to cope with stress. For people prone to burnout, skipping meals can destabilise blood sugar levels, leading to irritability, fatigue and poor concentration. While time-restricted eating may suit some, it’s essential to assess individual stress levels and nutritional needs before fasting.”
Shaw advises opting for warming, nutrient-rich foods that sustain energy and support your immune system. This doesn’t mean you have to swerve the food you love, but it might mean working more diverse foods into your winter meals in order to hit your quota of fortifying nutrients.
• Complex carbohydrates: Root vegetables, oats, quinoa and whole grains for slow-releasing energy.
• Healthy fats: Avocados, nuts, seeds and oily fish to support brain health and hormone regulation.
• Protein: Lean meats, eggs, tofu, lentils and chickpeas to stabilise blood sugar and repair tissues.
• Vitamin C and zinc-rich foods: Citrus fruits, berries, red peppers and pumpkin seeds to support immune health.
• Iron-rich foods: Leafy greens, red meat, beans and fortified cereals to combat winter fatigue.
• Warm beverages: Herbal teas with calming herbs (like chamomile and lavender) can reduce stress.
Move your body
It’s no secret that moving your body will make you feel better, but it’s easy to skip gym sessions when we’re stressed and overworked. Nonetheless, exercise or even gentle stretching can lift your mood and reduce stress, which can decrease the likelihood of feeling burnt out. Think of movement like a reset for your nervous system.
“It’s essential not to set fitness goals or have expectations that will only set you up for failure.” says PT and health coach Edwina Jenner. “I tell my clients that I appreciate longer workouts may take a backseat when your routine is up in the air, but retaining short, manageable workouts along with getting outside and walking in nature is the formula needed to ensure they do not abandon their self care needs altogether. Viewing fitness as self care rather than another chore or obligation can help you reframe working out as vital to your overall happiness and wellbeing.”
Jenner advises doing short, manageable workouts during the winter months, like 10-15 minutes of bodyweight exercises such as squats, planks and lunges, or a brisk walk outside. “Moderate, non-stressful activity prevents excessive spikes in cortisol. For midlife women in perimenopause who are more sensitive to stress, these shorter workouts are ideal as they do not overwhelm the body but will help to make you feel calmer and give you some of that all-important headspace that we don’t just want but also need.” she says.
If you aren’t a keen gym goer or weight training isn’t your thing, there are plenty of other ways to use exercise to boost your mental health. Stretching routines, foam rolling, yoga or even walking the dog can all help to release tension and stave off the symptoms of burnout.